flirting why and how

This is a wonderfully fun Ted talk about flirting.  Why and how to do it effectively. ...
https://youtube.com/watch?v=RXwQ7_hlL3g&si=Q4c6VY8L7byspU8o


Key take away: flirting means the act of making another person feel seen, special And acknowledged. 

How... Confidence means doing your intentions and reading the room. 

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